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Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Baby Spurts - Week 30

How your baby's growing:

Your baby's about 15.7 inches long now, and she weighs almost 3 pounds (like a head of cabbage). A pint and a half of amniotic fluid surrounds her, but that volume will decrease as she gets bigger and takes up more room in your uterus. Her eyesight continues to develop, though it's not very keen; even after she's born, she'll keep her eyes closed for a good part of the day. When she does open them, she'll respond to changes in light but will have 20/400 vision — which means she can only make out objects a few inches from her face. (Normal adult vision is 20/20.)

See what your baby looks like this week.

Note: Every baby develops a little differently — even in the womb. Our information is designed to give you a general idea of your baby's development.

How your life's changing:

You may be feeling a little tired these days, especially if you're having trouble sleeping. You might also feel clumsier than normal, which is perfectly understandable. Not only are you heavier, but the concentration of weight in your pregnant belly causes a shift in your center of gravity. Plus, thanks to hormonal changes, your ligaments are more lax, so your joints are looser, which may also contribute to your balance being a bit off. Also, this relaxation of your ligaments can actually cause your feet to spread permanently, so you may have to invest in some new shoes in a bigger size.

Remember those mood swings you had earlier in pregnancy? The combination of uncomfortable symptoms and hormonal changes can result in a return of those emotional ups and downs. It's normal to worry about what your labor will be like or whether you'll be a good parent. But if you can't shake the blues or feel increasingly irritable or agitated, talk to your doctor or midwife. You may be among the 1 in 10 expectant women who battle depression during pregnancy. Also let your caregiver know if you're frequently nervous or anxious.
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Whale-ly Updates 15

Went for our 30 week check up yesterday. Everything's good!

  1. Mom and baby are at ideal weight. And I should just continue on my eating spree (wheee!)
  2. There's ample amniotic fluid.
  3. Baby's still bridged (but we're calm and confident that she'll turn in due time)
  4. I am currently 59.4kg... I was 50 pre-pregnancy
  5. Antenatal classes are starting next Saturday (we're really excited!)
  6. I've been getting very little sleep the past week due to pregnancy discomforts but it's good training for the confinement month
  7. Baby currently weight 1558g!
  8. We have 9 weeks + to go... Wow
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Momma bump - 29 weeks


Here's the bump at 29 weeks =D

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Sunday, March 28, 2010

Magical moments

It's been a while since I've felt like myself and had uninterrupted sleep. It's been a while since I've been able to move about without having to be very very careful. It's been a while since I've been able to fit into my nice clothes. It's been a while since I've been able to sleep on my favorite position.

But what makes it worth while is the fact that I'll be seeing our little one in a matter of weeks... and also, the magical magical moments which we both love so much.

Last night we had a magical moment. Baby was having the hiccups... we knew cause it was a very rhythmic thud. Justin couldn't really feel them through my bump so he proceeded to trying to listen for thuds. He heard them alright! And then when the hiccups stopped, he heard something magical.... HEARTBEATS!! He exclaimed and I saw in his eyes... the look of a proud proud daddy! It was so amazing, how I wish I had a stethoscope! Justin listened intently to each beat until she decided to shift position and then the beats were drowned out by the myriad of other noises - digestion and my own heartbeat.

It's really amazing, cause he's been trying to listen for a heartbeat for a while now, and finally without warning, he was surprised with a magical moment!

So I shall note this on 28th March 2010 @ 11.04pm, daddy heard baby's heartbeat through the bump!! =) Approx 180 bpm. =)
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Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Of Fears and Guilt...

Since young, I've always wanted to be stay at home mom. In fact I thought that I was going to be a stay at home mom!

When we got pregnant, we knew being a stay at home mom and having comfortable family finances will not be possible. Either one had to go. We sat down, calculated expenditure and realised having a baby would cost... well... alot. And so it became clear that I could not leave my job.

Ever since then I've chucked that aside, focusing on taking the pregnancy one step at a time... kinda like denial. Now with B-day lurking round the corner... I've been noticing that guilt has been creeping up. Questions like... will I be a good enough mom? Will I be missing out on her vital milestones? Will I be giving my baby the best she deserves - the best of me?

Here's what we've planned.... Baby will come to work me with in her 2nd month...Yeap... 2nd month. That's cause I am only allotted 1 month maternity leave. So baby will be with me in a playpen in class or with my dad in his office... And I'll attempt to juggle both work and a baby... My schedule's pretty packed yet fluid at the same time, but of course, I've never done this before and there's no way of guessing if this will work till we actually get there...

I guess we'll do this step by step. Trusting that God can make a way in the harshest of environments, what more this one?
=)

To God be the glory! Amen!
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Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Jazzy baby?

Last night we were seriously spoiled! Uncle Chris (our dearest dearest and most favorite uncle), doted on us (Justin, I and my cousins) with a wonderful Italian dinner at Sheraton Imperial. This is a place that epitomizes a relaxed, high-class, elegant, romantic dinner!

So, apart from the really good food, superb ambiance, and 5 star service, the main highlight was the live 3-piece jazz band! We didn't manage to get their name though =(. But these people were superb! The best we've heard so far.

I noticed something interesting. Our girl is usually up for about 30 minutes to 1 hour at most, then she sleeps for about 2 hours, then the cycle repeats. But last night, she was awake for a good 2 hours + +. Nicely squirming and kicking about! We were jokingly saying, oooo maybe this baby's like her daddy - a lover of smooth jazz! As soon as the music stopped, so did her movements! Hmmm a coincidence? Probably!

Justin was inspired by the music and decided to play a little jazz when we got home, lo and behold, the movements started again! So this has left us wondering... do we really have a jazzy baby? =D Such good taste our girl has!
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Monday, March 22, 2010

Whale-ly Updates 14

Here's some updates at the start of the 3rd trimester. =)
  1. When Justin measured my bump today (29 weeks + 2 days) he said "are you ready for the news?" My eyes went --> O.O He said... 99cm. Wow... Last week it was 97.5cm. Wow.
  2. My back has been aching =( Can't seem to find a suitable position as my bump gets so much bigger and heavier by the day (I feel)
  3. My baby girl is still kicking inwards and today, she did lots of dances and squirms... especially when daddy came home. She loves the sound of daddy's voice (much to Justin's delight of course). It's so nice seeing daddy and girl bond like that =D
Other than these... nothing much has changed.. Oooo ya... my shoes are getting tighter... water retention perhaps?

=)

But I'm really thankful for being given this gift. I love my family.. Hehehe.. As Justin pointed out, we're going to be a family soon. =) Thank You Lord!
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Baby Spurts - Week 29

Week 29, we're here!

How your baby's growing:

Your baby now weighs about 2 1/2 pounds (like a butternut squash) and is a tad over 15 inches long from head to heel. His muscles and lungs are continuing to mature, and his head is growing bigger to make room for his developing brain. To meet his increasing nutritional demands, you'll need plenty of protein, vitamins C, folic acid, and iron. And because his bones are soaking up lots of calcium, be sure to drink your milk (or find another good source of calcium, such as cheese, yogurt, or enriched orange juice). This trimester, about 250 milligrams of calcium are deposited in your baby's hardening skeleton each day.

See what your baby looks like this week.

Note: Every baby develops a little differently — even in the womb. Our information is designed to give you a general idea of your baby's development.

How your life's changing:

Your baby's very active now. Your practitioner may ask you to spend some time each day counting kicks and will give you specific instructions on how to do this. Let her know if you ever notice a decrease in activity. You may need a nonstress test or biophysical profile to check on your baby's condition.

Some old friends — heartburn and constipation — may take center stage now. The pregnancy hormone progesterone relaxes smooth muscle tissue throughout your body, including your gastrointestinal tract. This relaxation, coupled with the crowding in your abdomen, slows digestion, which in turn can cause gas and heartburn — especially after a big meal — and contribute to constipation as well.

Your growing uterus may also be contributing to hemorrhoids. These swollen blood vessels in your rectal area are common during pregnancy and usually clear up in the weeks after giving birth. If they're itchy or painful, try soaking in a sitz bath or applying cold compresses medicated with witch hazel to the affected area. Also avoid sitting or standing for long stretches. Talk with your practitioner before using any over-the counter remedies during pregnancy, and let her know if you have any rectal bleeding. To prevent constipation, eat a high-fiber diet, drink plenty of water, and get some regular exercise.

Some women get something called "supine hypotensive syndrome" during pregnancy, where laying flat on your back causes a change in heart rate and blood pressure that makes you feel dizzy until you change position. You might note that you feel lightheaded if you stand up too quickly, too. To avoid "the spins" lie on your side rather than your back, and move slowly as you go from lying down to sitting and then standing.
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Momma bump - 28 weeks



Week 28 has come and gone, this bump is still growing!

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Motherhood expo + holes in our pockets

So the long awaited motherhood expo has come and gone. I was exceedingly excited about this sale, because Combi was part of it!!! Since stepping into the Midvalley Combi shop last October, I've been sold on the idea of a Combi stroller and carseat. Finding out that they were one of the top brands in terms of safety and looks kept me visiting their shop everytime I was in Midvalley... just to touch the strollers and to see if new stock has arrived. Came to a point when Justin felt a tad embarrassed cause we were going in and out and never buying anything. So needless to say, after being such a frequent window shopper, that I had memorized their models and prices! So I was really excited to think that they would be giving quite good discounts at the expo.

Our friends in the journey Andrew and Rebecca had scouted the expo and brought back great reports, especially on Combi discounts. So off we went!

We went, we saw, and within 10 minutes, it conquered our wallets. Behold our loot!

Isn't she a beauty?? I liked the black one... beautiful!! But Justin liked this... so we compromised =)

Combi Granpaseo - Natural beige
I'm just sooo excited about this!! This was my second choice, first choice was the Miracle turn model which has 4 wheel drive!! But sadly, it was RM400 more, so we decided to stick to this instead =)


Combi Coccoro - Hazelnut


This weighs an amazing 4.4kg! And has achieve one of the greatest awards in terms of safety testing in Asia and America. =) It's compact so it can fit in my tiny car and what's best is it's suitable from 0 months - 4 years! =) We wanted this carseat in lime green, but stock would only arrive about June, and we needed this to ferry the baby back from the hospital. So we stuck to second best (which was my initial choice!!) - hazelnut color! =D =D

This trip did burn a hole in our pockets.. guess it's fresh air and sunshine for the next few months for us. But all in, we got a discount of RM898 for these two products, a free rain cover worth 100+, and some other smaller freebies. We are satisfied parents! God is so good!!

Finally, the load is almost off our chest. All the biggest purchases have been made... with the exception of a playpen. T_T

There's another expo coming up in May and a huge huge one in August =)
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Monday, March 15, 2010

Full Term?

While reading regular updates from Baby Center... I was surprised.... rather shocked at this bit of information... A baby is considered full term at 37 weeks.. and many mothers deliver their babies around then...

So....

I am currently 28 weeks...

My EDD is calculated based on a 40 week length... which is 5th June.

If Baby Bean Sprout... by the way, is now entering the Bean Stalk mark, so decides to come out earlier.... say... at a bout 38 weeks?

That will leave me.... 10 weeks from delivery???? That's only slightly more than 2 months!!! And that will mean I'll miss the June mark =/

But 10 weeks??? We're so not ready yet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Panic panic panic panic!



Okkk breathe!!!


On a side note.... we've decided to just go ahead and set up the Baby Registry. As you may notice, the link's located on the top right tool bar. But we've not officially opened the registry yet. Do take a look =)

As mentioned, we're just giving it a try. If we get some givers, Praise God! If not, then it's totally fine as well =)
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Sunday, March 14, 2010

Whale-ly Updates 14

Hello!

Some updates

  1. My waist now measures 97.5cm!
  2. I have this blue black/purplish ring around my belly button... and my belly button's still an innie =D
  3. Been feeling heavy this past week... especially when baby shift position and lands on my tummy... with the heavy boobs pressing down, and baby pushing up, it gets really uncomfortable.. and I honestly don't feel like eating.
  4. Baby's movements are not as strong as 2 weeks ago. Starting from last Thursday, I've been feeling much less movements, and the movements are somewhat internal... err... as in, I don't feel her limbs kicking outwards. Feels like she's kicking inwards... get it? Possibly because of her position. Read on the internet that sometimes babies shift positions so that they are facing mom's spine, therefore movements will not be felt as much. So maybe that's why? I'm trying hard not to worry. =) But I've still been counting kicks as the doctor recommended. And she's still been giving me more than 10 movements per day =) It's cute to see my belly change shape sometimes... I still can't figure out which part of her is causing my belly to protrude. Sometimes the right side is more pronounced, then she decides to shift and then the left bulges up! Heheheh. Cute!
  5. I've been having trouble sleeping.. seriously. Past 3 nights have been horrendous. I find myself wide awake at night because I simply can't find a comfortable position to be in!!! I've tried bolsters, pillows, blankets and all to help, but nothing seems to work for long. Once I get comfy, my bladder calls. =( And I've only just started my 3rd trimester.... babycenter says that from now till 37 weeks, baby's weight will triple!!!!! *faints*
  6. the round ligament pains are back... after taking a hiatus for the whole 2nd trimester, it has come back... welcome back my old friend..=.= I have to beware of how I turn in bed and get out of bed. One wrong (too fast, too hard) turn and that's it, I'd pull a muscle. So I have to repeat to myself.. gentle sher, gentle, then hold on to my bump and move sllooooowllyy...
  7. I officially only have 2 pairs of pants I can wear now. I can no longer fit into anything but skirts and dresses!!!! =( The horror....... I've not bought any maternity clothes yet... maybe now's the time to consider at least one pair of pants? But they are grossly overpriced!!!! Grrrr...
  8. Ooohh I can still see my feet. Muahahahaha!! =D But am having trouble bending down to scrub my toes in the shower now. Very soon, Justin will have to do that for me... Ooh thank God I don't have shoes with shoe laces =D hehehehehe.
Well, I guess that's all the up
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Saturday, March 13, 2010

Baby Spurts - Week 28

Week 28 (Hello 3rd Trimester)

How your baby's growing:

By this week, your baby weighs two and a quarter pounds (like a Chinese cabbage) and measures 14.8 inches from the top of her head to her heels. She can blink her eyes, which now sport lashes. With her eyesight developing, she may be able to see the light that filters in through your womb. She's also developing billions of neurons in her brain and adding more body fat in preparation for life in the outside world.

See what your baby looks like this week. (Or see what fraternal twins look like in the womb this week.)

Note: Every baby develops a little differently — even in the womb. Our information is designed to give you a general idea of your baby's development.

How your life's changing:

You're in the home stretch! The third and final trimester starts this week. If you're like most women, you'll gain about 11 pounds this trimester.

At this point, you'll likely visit your doctor or midwife every two weeks. Then, at 36 weeks, you'll switch to weekly visits. Depending on your risk factors, your practitioner may recommend repeating blood tests for HIV and syphilis now, as well as doing cultures for chlamydia and gonorrhea, to be certain of your status before delivery. Also, if your glucose screening test result was high and you haven't yet had follow-up testing, you'll soon be given the 3-hour glucose tolerance test. And if the blood work done at your first prenatal visit showed that you're Rh negative, you'll get an injection of Rh immunoglobulin to prevent your body from developing antibodies that could attack your baby's blood. (If your baby is Rh positive, you'll receive another shot of Rh immunoglobulin after you give birth.)

Around this time, some women feel an unpleasant "creepy-crawly" sensation in their lower legs and an irresistible urge to move them while trying to relax or sleep. If this sensation is at least temporarily relieved when you move, you may have what's known as restless legs syndrome (RLS). No one knows for sure what causes RLS, but it's relatively common among expectant mothers. Try stretching or massaging your legs, and cut down on caffeine, which can make the symptoms worse. Ask your caregiver if you should try iron supplements, which can sometimes relieve RLS.
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Momma bump - 27 weeks

Here's Momma bump at week 27!

Huge! The bump now measured 96.5cm =)

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Baby Spurts - Week 27

Week 27

How your baby's growing:

This week, your baby weighs almost 2 pounds (like a head of cauliflower) and is about 14 1/2 inches long with her legs extended. She's sleeping and waking at regular intervals, opening and closing her eyes, and perhaps even sucking her fingers. With more brain tissue developing, your baby's brain is very active now. While her lungs are still immature, they would be capable of functioning — with a lot of medical help — if she were to be born now. Chalk up any tiny rhythmic movements you may be feeling to a case of baby hiccups, which may be common from now on. Each episode usually lasts only a few moments, and they don't bother her, so just relax and enjoy the tickle.

See what your baby looks like this week.

Note: Every baby develops a little differently — even in the womb. Our information is designed to give you a general idea of your baby's development.

How your life's changing:

The second trimester is drawing to a close, but as your body gears up for the final lap, you may start noticing some new symptoms. Along with an aching back, for example, you may find that your leg muscles cramp up now and then. They're carrying extra weight, after all, and your expanding uterus is putting pressure on the veins that return blood from your legs to your heart as well as on the nerves leading from your trunk to your legs. Unfortunately, the cramps may get worse as your pregnancy progresses. Leg cramps are more common at night but can also happen during the day. When a cramp strikes, stretching the calf muscle should give you some relief. Straighten your leg and then gently flex your toes back toward your shin. Walking for a few minutes or massaging your calf sometimes helps, too.

It may be the furthest thing from your mind right now, but it's not too soon to think about family planning. You'll want to have made some decisions about postpartum birth control before your baby arrives. If you're considering a tubal ligation, be aware that most states require you to sign a consent form at least 30 days beforehand. So if you'd like the option of having the surgery during your postpartum hospital stay, don't wait too much longer to discuss it with your caregiver. (You can still change your mind later.)

Beyond orange juice "Need more vitamin C? Try red bell peppers! They have nearly twice the vitamin C of a navel orange, and a half cup is one of the five servings of fruits and vegetables you need each day." — Kayla B.

Surprising Facts: Symptoms you should never ignore


So many aches, pains, and strange feelings arise during pregnancy that it can be hard to decide what's normal and what warrants a call to your doctor or midwife. To complicate matters further, some symptoms may be more or less urgent depending on your particular situation or health history and on how far along you are in your pregnancy. Here's a rundown of symptoms that could be a sign of a problem. If you have any of these complaints, call your doctor or midwife immediately:

Before you reach 37 weeks:

• Pelvic pressure (a feeling that your baby is pushing down), lower back pain (especially if it's a new problem for you), menstrual-like cramping or abdominal pain, or more than four contractions in an hour (even if they don't hurt)

• An increase in vaginal discharge or a change in the type of discharge — if it becomes watery, mucus-like, or bloody (even if it's only pink or blood-tinged)

At any time:

• Your baby is moving or kicking less than usual

• Severe or persistent abdominal pain or tenderness

• Vaginal bleeding or spotting, or watery discharge

• Pain or burning when you urinate, or little or no urination

• Severe or persistent vomiting, or any vomiting accompanied by pain or fever

• Chills or a fever of 100 degrees Fahrenheit or higher

• Blurred or double vision, or seeing spots or "floaters"

• A severe or persistent headache, or any headache accompanied by blurred vision, slurred speech, or numbness

• Any swelling in your face or puffiness around your eyes, anything more than mild swelling in your fingers or hands, or severe or sudden swelling in your legs, feet, or ankles, or a rapid weight gain (more than 4 pounds in a week)

• Severe or persistent leg or calf pain that doesn't ease up when you flex your ankle and point your toes toward your nose, or one leg significantly more swollen than the other

• Trauma to your abdomen

• Fainting, frequent dizziness, rapid heartbeat, or palpitations

• Difficulty breathing, coughing up blood, or chest pain

• Severe constipation accompanied by abdominal pain or severe diarrhea that lasts more than 24 hours

• Persistent intense itching all over

• Any health problem that you'd ordinarily call your practitioner about, even if it's not pregnancy-related (like worsening asthma or a cold that gets worse rather than better)
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Momma bump - 26 weeks

Here's week 26 (looks a little smaller than it really is because of the shirt)

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Thursday, March 11, 2010

One of those days...2

I'm wondering how many times has God and Justin heard this complaint since I got pregnant... I really am a worry wart...

After blogging about our girl's waking and moving patterns, yesterday things changed again... She was still yesterday... I counted probably 10 movements for the whole day... and even then, they were weak ones... only 3 hard belly-jiggling kicks... Other than that.. she was still... Imagine the worries...

I found myself up almost all night praying and holding on to my bump, trying to feel the slightest movements from my little girl... none.

Her daddy is not as worried as I am... because we've been through this before... where there'll be days she's as still as a rock. But the thought of losing another child is too overwhelming for me... and I find myself torn between entertaining my worries and fighting the battle of faith and believing.

We've come so far... Tomorrow marks the 28th week since we've had her. We've been through many hurdles - psychological and emotional ones. But it feels horrible that even after we've weathered through so many storms, my faith still remains so so small.

I now find myself telling God... Lord, I need to feel my girl kick hard today... please.

Wow.. I just felt her squirm =D Ok Ok!! that's movement number 1 and 2 today!! Hallelujah!
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Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Updates updates!

It's been a week now since Baby Bean Sprout has been exhibiting a 'pattern'.

She now wakes up for 20-30 mins, then goes back to sleep for about 2 hours, and then wakes for about 20-30 mins.
She's mostly active in the late mornings and late nights. =) Late night's usually when Justin and I are on the bed talking bout our day, or watching TV together.

Since we've been noticing this pattern of kicking, punching, and squirming during the late nights, we've been really bonding as a family. This mommy will watch attentively as daddy talks to his girl. Sometimes he'll read from his guitar magazine, sometimes he'll tell her about his day, sometimes he'll just speak whatever's on his mind. And the wonderful thing about it is, she responds with huge kicks!! It's almost like there's a conversation between daddy and girl already! I know Justin really loves this too.

Just last night, he had a 15 minute long conversation with her as she packed some real huge kicks and punches right to mommy's sides. Ouchies for me, but glee for daddy. He watched attentively as she created waves under my skin. This daddy was proud. Proud that he could get such reactions and responses outta her!

It is really a joy. Whenever I catch her squirming about, I'd take the time to talk to her. Conversations always start with Hello girl, and she would kick back =) This part of pregnancy is just marvelous.

This is the last week of my 2nd trimester, this Saturday, I'd welcome the 3rd trimester. I've heard from many that the 3rd will be the hardest. I shall just go into it expecting the best, not the worst - to counteract the whole self-fulfilling prophecy scenario. =)

Oh.. I have another testimony post scheduled for after Sunday. =) Stay tuned yes.
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Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Gynae visit - 4

It's been a while since I've posted reports on our gynae visits. Kinda forgotten I had this category to blog about =D.

In a nutshell from the ultrasound scan:
1. EFW = 989g (a little higher than normal). So I was advised to cut down on my Anmum milk intake which is fine by me seeing I was stunned with what I found in the pack (will elaborate later).
2. BPD = 68.1mm
3. AC = 213.4mm
4. FL = 52.4mm
5. Amniotic fluid quantity is normal

According to my calculations, baby is supposed to be 26 weeks 3 days. Scans came out to be 27 weeks 1 day, which brought forward my due date to 1st June.

Things to note for this week onwards:
1. Gynae said, start the movement count! 10 movements per day. If anything changes drastically, remember point 2.
2. Should anything happen, go straight to the labor and emergency ward which is open 24/7 =)



Now... my Anmum Materna milk story. I bought a BRAND new box of milk last week, then proceeded to open it. Upon stiring the milk in my cup, I saw black things floating at the surface... Upon closer inspection, I found that that those black things were BUGS!!! BUGS IN MY MILK! I've since stopped drinking and have written a complain letter to Anmum which has not received a reply. So yeap....I googled this up and apparently, similar cases have been found in baby milk powder and those bugs are harmful!! Please beware.. I wonder if this was an isolated incident (ie one single batch) or there are more of it! One thing's for sure, I was delighted when gynae said to cut down on Anmum!! To all Anmum drinkers, please inspect your milk powder before drinking!
 

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